Giving Dogs the Space They Need

I’m so grateful that people seem to be more aware of canine etiquette these days. Even so, you may still occasionally find yourself being approached—or even ambushed—by an off-leash dog while their person calls out, “Don’t worry—he’s friendly!”

The thing is, friendly isn’t really the point.

Maybe your dog is nervous, fearful, overly excited, or working through some big feelings about dogs or people. Maybe you’ve had an unpleasant experience in the past, and an unfamiliar dog rushing toward you makes you anxious—which can, in turn, make your dog anxious. Or maybe you simply don’t want your dog interacting with every dog they meet...that’s a topic for a different day!

Whatever the reason, everyone deserves space to enjoy time out and about with their dog.

A few things that can help:

1. Use a “Dog in Training” or “Needs Space” patch.

Sometimes a visual message resonates with our fellow humans more quickly than the words coming out of our mouths!

2. Make your intentions clear on trails.

If you step off the trail to let someone pass, turn your back to the trail, face your dog, and keep them engaged with you. This helps your dog focus and sends a pretty clear message that you’re not looking for an interaction.

3. Keep a handful of kibble or treats handy.

If an off-leash dog is heading your way, toss a handful of treats away from you, then use your U-turn and head in the opposite direction. The dog will likely stop to check out the bounty you just offered, giving you a chance to create some distance.

4. Teach a U-turn.

A good U-turn gives you a quick, positive way to tell your dog, “We’re going this way instead!”

Choose a cue such as “Let’s go,” “This way,” or “Turn.”

• Say your cue in a happy, engaging voice.

• Turn and begin walking in the opposite direction.

• Let your dog turn and catch up with you—don’t use the leash to turn them; your dog should choose to play the game by “turning”.

• Mark and reward when they catch up.

Keep it fun...this should be a game the two of you enjoy! Practice U-turns randomly when there is no reason to on everyday walks so the cue doesn’t become a predictor that something scary or stressful is nearby. You want your dog to hear it and happily think, “Oh! I love this game!”

5. It’s okay to be assertive.

Being polite doesn’t mean you have to allow an interaction you don’t want. A simple, clear “We’re training and aren’t ready to say hello” is enough.

And when someone gives you the space you’ve asked for, thank them! That space may be exactly what your dog needs to feel more comfortable around other dogs or people. And for those dogs who LOVE everyone, it’s a great opportunity to practice seeing dogs and people without having to say hello. Either way, you’ve turned the moment into a positive learning experience.

One last thought—have a plan for emergencies.

Most approaching dogs can be handled by creating distance, using treats, or getting behind a barrier. But it’s always good to think ahead about what you would do if a loose dog continued to approach.

If you happen to have a fifth hand available after juggling your dog, leash, treats, poop bags, water bottle, and everything else we somehow bring along, a small pop-open umbrella can be a great addition. Opening it between you and an approaching dog can create a quick visual and physical barrier, giving you a little extra space to get yourself and your dog out of the situation.

And don’t forget to use what’s already around you! A parked car, tree, bench, garbage can, or anything else you can safely put between you and the approaching dog can help create that much-needed space.

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Jill Kudera CPDT-KA Certified Professional Dog Trainer

 Licensed and Insured

 Licensed Veterinary Technician

 Canine and Feline CPR and First Aid Certified